Private by design
Honesty needs a safe place to happen
A couples quiz only works if you both answer honestly, and honesty about desire needs real safety, not a checkbox promise. This page explains, plainly, how the safety actually works.
Your partner never sees your answers
Nothing you answer alone is revealed, with two exceptions you control. Things you both marked as a boundary are shown to both of you, because you each already said it. And where one of you was open to something and the other chose rather not, which means open to talking about it, the item may be shown as a conversation to have; the answer screen tells you that before you choose it, and we never say which of you was the keen one. Boundaries only one of you marked are shared only if you both agree. Everything else stays on the server. A yes your partner marked as a firm no is never revealed under any circumstances: not shown, not hinted at, and never counted in any statistic that could give it away.
Everything self-destructs in 30 days
Answers, notes, matches, your details, your emails, and our stored copies of your report are all hard-deleted 30 days after your session begins, automatically and unrecoverably. The report files already in your inbox are yours to keep.
No accounts, no names required
There is nothing to sign up for and no profile that accumulates. Nicknames are fine. The one thing we ask for, an email each, exists solely to deliver your report, and it deletes with everything else.
No ads, no data sales, no tracking
The business is simple: reports cost $10. There are no advertisements, your data is never sold or shared for marketing, and the only cookie is the one keeping you connected to your own questionnaire. Any analytics we run are cookie-free page counts, never anything about answers.
Private links, discreet payments
Your questionnaire is reachable only through unguessable private links. Payments happen on Stripe, card details never touch us, and your bank statement reads simply ONLYIFYOUDO.COM.
The formal version of all of this lives in the privacy policy. Curious how the whole flow works? Step by step here, or start together.