Private by design
Honesty needs a safe place to happen
A couples quiz only works if you both answer honestly, and honesty about desire needs real safety, not a checkbox promise. This page explains, plainly, how the safety actually works.
Your partner never sees your answers
Your partner sees only shared yeses and maybes and boundaries you both independently selected. Unmatched answers and notes stay private: they do not appear in results, reports, emails, model prompts or analytics.
Session access ends after 30 days
Session access ends 30 days after it begins. Session answers, notes, contact details and stored reports are scheduled for automatic deletion. Payment records, return-code records and anonymous aggregate counts persist; the privacy policy explains these. Downloaded and emailed files remain with their recipients.
No accounts, no names required
There is nothing to sign up for and no profile that accumulates. Nicknames are fine. The one thing we ask for, an email each, exists solely to deliver your report, and session contact details are scheduled for deletion after 30 days.
No ads or data sales
The business is simple: reports cost $10. There are no advertisements, your data is never sold or shared for marketing, and necessary cookies keep you connected to your own questionnaire. Optional analytics count public pageviews only. Private questionnaire and report routes are excluded.
Private links, discreet payments
Your questionnaire is reachable only through unguessable private links. Payments happen on Stripe, card details never touch us, and your bank statement reads simply ONLYIFYOUDO.COM.
The formal version of all of this lives in the privacy policy. Curious how the whole flow works? Step by step here, or start together.