Statistics
What couples discover
A living, high-level look at what couples quietly agree on, drawn from 1,882 couples. Aggregate data only: no individual answers exist here, and nothing can be traced to any person or couple.
The topics couples agree on most
How often couples turn out to want the same thing, topic by topic. The further the bar, the more common ground couples find there.
Percentages are the average share of couples who both said yes to a question in that topic.
Where curiosity runs highest
The topics where couples most often land on a shared maybe: not a no, not yet a yes, just a conversation waiting to happen.
Average share of couples per topic in shared-curiosity territory, where at least one partner said maybe and neither said no.
Where doors are left open
How often one partner is interested and the other would rather not, for now. That is the softest kind of difference there is: on this questionnaire a rather not means open to talking about it, so it is a door left ajar rather than a disagreement. Firm boundaries are a different thing entirely and are counted nowhere on this page.
Average share of couples per topic where one partner said yes or maybe and the other said rather not. Counted directly, never inferred, and never involving a boundary on either side.
Where would the two of you land?
The averages are one thing. Your shared list is yours alone. Answer privately, and only the things you both want, plus anything one of you is open to talking about, are ever revealed.
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