The terms, plainly

These terms are an agreement between you and Only If You Do (“we”, “us”), the operator of onlyifyoudo.com. By starting a session or purchasing a report you accept them. If you do not accept them, do not use the service.

The service is strictly for people aged 18 or over. By starting a session you confirm that both participants are 18 or over and are taking the questionnaire together as consenting adults. We may end any session we reasonably believe breaches this requirement.

Only If You Do is a private questionnaire for couples. Each partner answers independently, and only mutually shared answers are revealed, as described on the About page and in the privacy policy. The free tier shows your mutual matches on screen. The paid tier is a personalized report, delivered by email to both partners as a PDF and as a self-contained interactive file.

The service is for conversation, connection, and entertainment. It is not medical, psychological, legal, or relationship advice, and it is no substitute for professional help. Anything you and your partner choose to do together is your own decision and requires the ongoing, enthusiastic consent of everyone involved. Nothing in a report is a recommendation to do anything either of you does not want to do.

Sessions and everything in them (answers, notes, matches, emails, and stored report copies) are automatically and permanently deleted 30 days after the session begins. We are not able to recover a deleted session, so download or keep your emailed report if you want it long-term. Invitation links are single-use and private: keep them to yourselves.

The report is a one-time purchase: $10 US for a first report, or $5 US with a valid return code from a previous report. Prices include any applicable taxes unless stated otherwise at checkout. Payment is processed by Stripe on their hosted checkout page; we never see or store card details. Your statement will read ONLYIFYOUDO.COM.

Because the report is personalized digital content generated and delivered immediately, it cannot be returned once delivered. If your report fails to generate or never arrives, contact us: we will fix it, resend it, or refund you. If anything about your purchase seems wrong, tell us via the contact form before raising a card dispute and we will sort it out quickly. Nothing in these terms limits any non-waivable rights you have under the consumer law of your place of residence.

Each purchased report includes a return code valid for 14 months from issue, entitling either partner to repeat reports at the repeat price. Codes have no cash value, cannot be sold, and expire at the end of their validity period. Keep your code private: anyone holding it can use it for the discount (it grants no access to your data).

You agree not to:

• complete a questionnaire on behalf of another person, or pressure anyone into taking it or into any act arising from it;
• attempt to access another person’s answers, session, or report, or to defeat the matching mechanism in any way;
• probe, scrape, overload, or interfere with the service or its security;
• use the service for any unlawful purpose.

We may suspend or end access for breaches of this section.

Answers and notes you enter remain yours. You grant us only the limited license needed to operate the service as described: to store them, compute your matches, and generate your report. We never publish them, never use them for marketing, and delete them on the schedule above.

The questionnaire, question bank, reports, design, and brand are our intellectual property. Your report files are licensed to you both for personal, non-commercial use, and it is yours to keep. Do not republish the question bank or resell reports.

We work to keep the service available and accurate, but it is provided “as is” and “as available” without warranties of any kind beyond those that cannot be excluded by law. Report content, including narrative sections and comparisons with aggregate data, is generated for interest and conversation and may contain imperfections.

To the fullest extent permitted by law, our total liability for any claim arising out of the service is limited to the amount you paid us in the 12 months before the claim arose, and we are not liable for indirect or consequential loss. Nothing in these terms excludes liability that cannot lawfully be excluded, including any non-excludable consumer guarantees in your jurisdiction.

If these terms change, the date at the top changes with it, and material changes will be flagged on this page before they take effect for new sessions. Questions about these terms: contact us.